Life with a Narcissist

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People who have not lived with a narcissist cannot understand what a remarkably crazy-making existence it is. People who have (knowingly or unknowingly) lived with a narcissist for any length of time can all agree that living with one is something akin to living with the Red Queen in Through the Looking-Glass:  “All the ways …

Girls Just Want to Have Fun and Take Their Power

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When I was a teenager, I idolized Cyndi Lauper when she came on the scene. She was SO OUT THERE. She had crazy, chopped-up and wildly colored hair, she wore what she darn well pleased, and her makeup declared, “Here I am! Like it or not!” In my teenage fantasies, I longed to dress just …